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Weekly Meal Planning

Family of 4, that includes 3 boys that are human garbage disposals, and always on the go, requires some meal planning to stay organized and on budget. Here is a little snapshot of how I plan my week:

  1. Weekly grocery online grocery orders to pick up on Sunday
    • Matt and I are both paid bi-weekly, opposite weeks of each other, so we have some type of income weekly. I budget for groceries a week at a time.
    • I “add to cart” throughout the week and check out to pick up on Sunday morning.
    • The reason I do Sunday is mainly because trash day is Monday, so while I’m stocking the fridge and pantry, I’m simultaneously cleaning it out (throwing out expired food, etc)
    • Sunday afternoon/evening, maybe even after kids are in bed, I do some meal prepping
  2. Menu for the week
    • Midweek when I’m adding to my grocery cart for the week, I’m looking at schedules to figure out what we need for meals the following week
    • I have a few go-to meals that are healthy-ish that the kids like, and some that are good for on-the-go
    • I post the Menu for the Week on the fridge so everyone knows what is coming
  3. I don’t make gourmet meals
    • I try to do well-balanced meals most of the time
    • I don’t make stuff my kids hate. The only veggies they really like are carrots, broccoli, and green beans. And that’s great! So I stick to that. Sometimes if I’m low on veggies I’ll add a fruit. I make one meal for everyone.
    • Most of my meals for the family are quick and/or easy. I use my crockpot a lot. And if I’m not using the crockpot, it’s usually a meal I can make in 15 mins or less
  4. I plan with reasonable expectations in mind
    • My husband is no cook. There are about 2 things he is able to cook. So if I’m working in the evening and he is handling the kids, I plan for him to cook one of those things. On OT days, it runs till dinner time and I either have something prepared ahead of time or they have a pizza night
    • I save cooking for days when they’re in school and I’ve had time to maybe prep before they get home. And I don’t plan to cook on days I work. I either prep something ahead of time easy to heat up, or use my crockpot and let it do the work.
  5. Leftovers are ok to have as a meal
    • some weeks, especially if I’m working a lot, I will plan meals specifically because they make good leftovers and we can get a couple meals out of it.

I’ll share with you one of our on-the-go meals – Chicken Quesadillas. On Mondays, we leave for hockey around 4:30pm and get home around 7:00pm which is about the time Logan starts getting ready for bed. I make chicken quesadillas and he eats half on the way to hockey, half on the way back for hockey. It’s an easy finger food with minimal mess.

Ingredients:

  • chicken (I use frozen)
  • taco seasoning
  • shredded cheese
  • tortillas

Directions:

I usually keep a bag of frozen chicken in my freezer. I put frozen chicken in the crockpot with about 1/4-1/2 cup of water and taco seasoning (I season generously). I let it cook on high for 3-4 hours. It is usually easy to shred at this point. *Sometimes I cook extra to keep in the fridge and use for quick easy meals throughout the week. I use my quesadilla maker – place a tortilla in it, cover it with cheese, cover with chicken, cover with another tortilla – and cook. I use a pizza cutter to cut it up in triangles. For riding in the car I usually pair it with a fruit like apple, pear, or something like that easy to eat. I have a thermal container to put half in for Logan to eat on the way home from hockey.

I hope you found this helpful. Let me know if you’d like to see more meal tips/recipes!

Always on the Go!

As a mom of 2 boys, I feel like I am always on the go. Logan is in Pre-K at an elementary school and needs to be dropped off around 7:15am, picked up 2:15pm. Blake is in middle school and rides the bus to/from school. On Mondays they have hockey, on Tuesdays they have basketball practice, Wednesday morning I drop Blake and his friend off at school early for Chess Club, Wednesday afternoon Logan has OT, Saturday is for basketball games – Logan at 8/9am, Blake 7/8pm. T-ball season will start up again when basketball ends, only Logan does that one, but it is usually 2 nights per week. Blake is in band so add a concert here and there. Oh, and I have to fit some shifts in at the ER at some point lol. And some quality time with the husband.

I’ve been working on my mental health recently, and one thing I’ve started doing is changing the way I think about things – turning negative thoughts into positive. Instead of “I’m so tired, ugh I have to fill up my gas tank AGAIN, ugh I have to air out the hockey stuff when we get home, but I’m so tired…” I turned it into:

“It’s a busy season of life, but I love watching my boys do things they love. I love watching them be active – so much better than screen time. They are learning valuable lessons about teamwork and discipline. I’m BLESSED to be able to afford a nice reliable car to transport them, I’m BLESSED to be able to afford the gas to transport them. And when it’s my turn to transport Blake to/from basketball, it’s just the two of us and I really enjoy that one-on-one time with him because we don’t get as much of that anymore. I’m GRATEFUL to have such a great coparenting relationship with Sean, and that all 3 of us get along well and work together to make sure the kids are cared for and get where they need to be.”

As I type this, it is 6:40am on a Saturday morning. Saturdays are long, but I’m grateful to be alive on these long days. Logan has a basketball game this morning at 8am. Blake’s is later tonight at 8pm. Matt goes to work at noon on weekends, so he will miss Blake’s game. I have a sitter coming to stay with Logan because he goes to bed at 7:30pm. We try not to disrupt bedtime with him. Keeping them on routines, or as close to routine as possible, helps everything run smoothly.

I challenge you to take one negative thought you have today, and think about how to turn it into a positive. One simple change in your mindset can make a huge change in your mental health and how you handle the day.